This is one of the more difficult things to do, I found, and caused me numerous headaches over the past months. As we didn’t want to get married in a church, the first thing that we had to think about was a venue that had a lovely room for the ceremony as well as the reception -you’ll be surprised how many of the places don’t. After weeks of going around various venues (and being made to feel like royalty) I realised that there are simply too many choices! So, we sat down with a pen and paper and began to write a list (get used to writing lists – there will be SO many!) We worked out approx numbers of guests (about 80 for the day and 150 for the evening), the style of the reception e.g. buffet, sit down etc. (we wanted both) and the general ‘feel’ we were looking for. Andy had his heart set on a Hog roast (typical man), for the evening part of the wedding, so this had to be taken into account!! We looked at stately homes, beachside hotels, country hotels and even a castle or two! I found it so easy to get caught up in the ‘fairytale’ wedding and ideas of grandeur, that I nearly forgot the practicalities such as overnight accommodation - with people coming from every direction, space for the casino (If I can persuade Andy to have one!) and seating/dancing space for the ever growing number of guests. Finally, we think we’ve done it. Found a place which has everything we wanted, captures our hearts and personalities and doesn’t break the bank!
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THE VENUE 1. Start with the budget - a good buffet can be just as good as a 5-course sit down meal.
2. Establish a good relationship with the banqueting manager to ensure that you get what you want on the day.
3. Does the venue offer reception only weddings?
4. Can you use your own caterers? (some venues insist on you using theirs).
5. If you wish to supply your own wine ask if there is a corkage fee?
4. Do they offer marquees? (Most venues have to hire them so can be expensive).
5. Is there a dance floor? (Ask as often they are packed away for storage).
6. Is there a noise curfew? Don’t pick a country village hotel if you want to be dancing until 2am!
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